Thursday 29 August 2013

10 Tips To Become A Successful Person

10 Tips To Become A Successful Person

Everybody craves to be successful. Achieving success is the right of every person and there is no reason why one cannot conquer the heights of their aspiration. It is impossible to be genuinely happy if you feel like a failure within. Each on of us can attain success irrespective of who we are, what we are and where we are.

1. Believe yourself

Confidence and believing in yourself is the basic key to success. A strong belief backed up by confidence can do wonders. As said by Henry Ford, “Whether you think you can or you cant- you’re right”. There is only one difference between ordinary people and successful people, the latter had faith in themself. What you tell to yourself and what you believe in is what you will ultimately be able to achieve. Believe from within that you deserve all the success that you aspire for, sooner or later success shall touch your feet.

2. Be disciplined

Self discipline is very necessary for a man’s existence. A man’s word is of great importance and if a person can’t live up to his words then there is no meaning. Be committed to your goals and you will become disciplined. Indiscipline is our greatest enemy so free yourself from it.

3. Identify your goals

There is no meaning to life if you have no goal or task to be accomplished. Identifying the goal is the first step to reach our destination. Dreams can’t come true without knowing the dream and achieving the dream is not possible if right actions are not taken at right time. Knowing your dream, establishing goals and acknowledging the purpose in life will motivate you and lead to progress.

4. Prioritize

Now that you have set your targets, you have to prioritize your goals. A lot of distraction and obstacles will come your way. It may be your social life or family life. Pay attention and keep your eyes fixed on your goals. Concentrate and focus on the task at hand, work towards it and finish it off perfectly.

5. Take the first step

Taking the first step and making the first move is the beginning of your journey. You can’t reach your destination if you don’t start your journey. It is as simple as that. The greatest obstacle for success is our hesitation to take initiative. If you succeed in taking the first step, the rest of the road will automatically unfold. So get started right now!

6. Change, learn and improve

Whether we notice it or not, Change takes place every single minute of every single day. Being the essence of life, Change is inevitable and makes life challenging. Challenge ensures growth and progress. You have to learn and improve by the changes that is happening around you. If you don’t change and gain knowledge through it, time and circumstances will force you to change yourself but it won’t be on your terms. So be flexible to change, learn from your mistakes and improve yourself.

7. Embrace Challenges and risks

Challenges, risks and failure is the highway to success. It is better to attempt and fail than not to attempt at all. Even though risk is a negative word by itself, it should be viewed as a chance and opportunity you give to yourself. So don’t be afraid to take risk and if you fail, keep trying and never give up. Setbacks are a part of life. All said and done, remember that failure is an event, not a person.

8. Conquer your limits

We tend to settle in our comfort zone where we feel safe and secure. We justify our action with if’s and but’s. No one is a born winner, you have to work hard, give it your best and keep trying to be successful. People who have achieved true success in their lives have worked for it and have seen failure too. A winner always knows that nothing is impossible. So stop giving excuses, be determined, turn weaknesses into your strength and be a conqueror of your limits.

9. Accept yourself

Each individual is unique and different in their own way. No one was born perfect and no body is perfect at this very moment. It all comes down to self esteem and how you see yourself as an individual. Every person is bound to make mistakes so learn your lesson and move forward. Don’t be hard on yourself in trying to be perfect. Accept yourself for who you are. Never try to be what you are not. Seeking acceptance from others is a futile exercise so avoid it.

10. Don’t be a victim

Most of us are vulnerable to others opinion and consider ourself a victim. We tend to pity ourself, thinking that life has been so unfair to us. ‘Expecting life to be fair because you think you’re a good person is like expecting a bull not to charge at you because you’re a vegetarian’. So take control over your life cause you and only you are the designer of your life.

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